Men vs Women

This is a topic that has astounded the masses for years! What I am going to write is not what is true, it is a matter of opinion, and whether you agree or not is completely up to you. These are just a few issues which keep coming up that get people everytime, and I just wanted to cover them.

1. Recently, a lot of males have been saying to me 'girls are so confusing' and I'm like no we are not at all. A lot of women say 'men are so confusing' and I say I don't find men confusing at all. You only think people are confusing because they are not doing what you want them to be doing. For instance, if I meet a guy and give him my number, I want him to call me the same day or the next day, and then I will freak out if he doesn't call me. Then I would act like heartbroken and confused becasue 'I thought he liked me'. The guy might have had some family emergency and might be thinking to himself 'I've got to call that girl when I can' but he just HASN'T had the chance.

2. I was in the pub with a few friends the other day, and we were talking about double standards between men and women (i.e. men saying that women are sluts when they sleep with more than one guy, and yet they do more than that themselves). Apparently, a guy had explained to one of my friends that 'women control who they have sex with and how it happens. Men have no control over it.' I think that is such bull. A lot of girls have sex with a guy to get him to like her, and you try to tell me that women control it. NO! It all depends on the person. Some women will manipulate to get it, some men will. Some women will succumb to men's mainpulation, some men will succumb to women's manipulation. That is the way the cookie crumbles!

3. Me personally, when I am in a relationship (which I am at the moment) I feel like I will die if the person goes like 2 metres away from me. I know a lot of people like that. That is soooooooooooo unhealthy. And I really want to stress that. You become so dependant on that one person and you don't care about the world outside you and them. And then if things go wrong you end up having to build your friendships back up again because your friends think that you will do that to them again.

4. Also, there are certain people who just don't know how to let go. I am one of these people. If something ends, badly especially, then I always need 'closure'. Closure just fools you into thinking you are over it. What I have learnt is that you need to let go in your heart. It is easier said than done, but everything happens for a reason, and when one door closes another one opens. Make sure you are not so hung up on someone else that you don't notice the new door opening.

That is all I can think of right now. Please let me know if there is anything I have left out or anything that offends anyone.

Peace out <3 x